Yung may malaking mata, matangkad at skinny guy talaga ang type ko, like when someone walk by na malaki mata then matangkad like okey magpapa cute ako talaga.
Ideally yan ang physical appearance ng guy na gusto ko if ever sa future. Pero kung tatanungin mo kung anong character, I admire guys who can make me submit and will find ways to make me smile every time. Sa deepest sense naman gusto ko yung guy na may sense of service and sincere love for his family.
Why it’s important to know what you don’t like for a partner?
1. You should know your partner well, as in super well dahil partner kayo para alam nyo how to complement each other’s strengths and weaknesses.
2. Discovery is exciting, hindi madali pumasok sa isang relationship because it will expose you, it will bring out the very you because it requires honesty despite the conflicts, sabi nga disagree to agree dapat. Hindi nakakatakot ang differences that will lead to conflict because it will test the purity and sincerity of your devotion to make your relationship works, and ang mahalaga naman sa paglipas ng pagtatalo kahit pa sigawan, handa pa din na yakapin ang isa’t isa at handa pa din magmahal ng paulit ulit.
3. The things you don’t like usually the things that you’ve seen or experienced before, mahirap mag move on sa past lalo na kung mag trigger sa trauma. If you’ve been to a relationship na super restricted ka so ayaw mo talaga sa partner na controlling yung tipong blow by blow ang updates sa every turn of events in a daily basis. Toxic yun promise. Learn to listen to stories of others on their relationship experiences because from that mapapaisip ka sa mga bagay-bagay regarding relationships.
4. You can’t just close your eyes to the things that hurt you, kaya siguro paulit ulit yung mali kasi hindi mo itinatama, or kaya siguro laging ganun ang story kasi same reactions ka lang sa situations. Sabi nga don’t expect a different results if you are repeating the same things. Don’t deny realities and as much as possible don’t compromise things that matters to you.
5. At the end of the day, seek the good in the person, and not the bad things. With the right perspective it will be easy to see the good side in every situation.
For me, hindi man malaki ang mata nya meron naman syang malaking pagmamahal sa pamilya nya at alam kong the same love will be given to his future family and I pray it’s with me. And hindi sya skinny, medyo buff and big guy sya for me na pwede isilid sa wallet, pero masaya ako how his arms always ready to wrap me for shield and comfort. True enough what we like will not be given fully kasi limited lang talaga isip natin sa qualities na familiar tayo. Kaya kung hindi ka sure sa mga gusto mo sa partner then you can start sa mga ayaw mo na lang sa isang future partner, by doing that ma trim down mo yung issues in the future if ever may piliin ka na.
Tanong: Bakit mahirap mag decide kung sino ang future partner natin?